88 of 121 DOCUMENTS The Boston Globe August 10, 2001, Friday ,THIRD EDITION JACK LEVIN Jack Levin is the director of the Brudnick Center on Conflict and Violence at Northeastern University. On June 28, he was 60.; THE BAD NEWS FOR AGING BOOMERS BYLINE: BY JACK LEVIN SECTION: OP-ED; Pg. A23 LENGTH: 670 words YESTERDAY I HAD THE SURPRISE OF MY LIFE. THE TELLER AT THE COMMUTER RAIL STATION WINDOW ASKED WHICH TICKET I WANTED - SENIOR CITIZEN OR ADULT. JUST A FEW YEARS AWAY FROM QUALIFYING FOR THE SENIOR DISCOUNT, I QUICKLY, AND WITH SOME RELIEF, COUNTERED, "I'M REALLY NOT ELIGIBLE YET. ONE ADULT ROUND TRIP PLEASE." Before that moment, it had never occurred to me that you were either an adult or a senior citizen and that you couldn't be both. I never realized that you were forced to give up your adult status when you were eligible for the senior discount. Thanks, but no thanks. Everybody makes a fuss over senior citizenship. The press seems to love using the word "elderly," even when it is entirely redundant. In news articles presumably written by very young reporters, people still in their 50s are frequently referred to as such. For example, in one recent report, a 56-year-old man was killed in his home. He was also described gratuitously as "elderly." Aside from children and teenagers, older people are the only age group to receive this "special" recognition in newspapers and on television. If a 38-year-old woman has a deadly accident, she is never referred to on the evening news as middle-aged. When a 20-year-old man robs a liquor store, he is never labeled as a young adult. But when someone 66 or 78 is described, not only is their specific age given, but so is their stage of life. Growing old must be a pretty big deal. I know what some are thinking. "What's so wrong with getting older anyhow?" Well, nothing. Aging is part of the natural order, a gradual process that begins with birth and ends with death. But being elderly is a social construction entirely invented by human beings. We decide when this stage of life begins by lobbing off a section of the life cycle and indicating - zap! - "you're old." In our society, old age starts when you retire, take your Social Security check and your pension, and ask for your 10 percent discount at the local drug store. Older people have long been stereotyped as chronically ill, unable to work, behind the times, slow-thinking, and a burden on society. They are often regarded as existing in a period of second childhood, in which their ability to reason and make sound judgments have regressed to the level of a 6-year-old. The mass media lend credence to this unflattering image by continuing to misrepresent or underrepresent elders. When they do appear in dramatic series or in commercials, older people are disparagingly connected with "Clap on! Clap off!" and "Help! I've fallen and I can't get up." And research shows that those who accept the elderly label are more likely to act the part - they tend to disengage, give up their important roles in society, and wait to die (sometimes for 30 or 40 years). On the other hand, those who continue to lead active lives tend to ignore the elderly status and maintain their self-image as functioning adults for as long as possible. Moreover, the millions of older people who dye their hair, use antiwrinkle cosmetics, and undergo plastic surgery for the sake of a more youthful appearance may be operating less out of vanity and more out of a desire to escape age discrimination. It might be argued that now that the 65 million baby boomers are approaching their mid-50s, the term elderly will soon get a needed boost in the public relations department. Not so. It is a sad truth that numbers alone do not assure respect and status. In fact, in colonial America, when only 10 percent of the population lived to celebrate their 60th birthday, old age was regarded as a sign of salvation and a special gift from God. But when longevity increased and more sizable numbers of people survived to old age, the prestige and power of elders declined. Recognizing this fact of life will be a rude awakening for the baby boomers, but it will probably make me feel better. When it comes to getter older, I am far from miserable. At the same time, I would certainly love the company. LOAD-DATE: August 11, 2001 LANGUAGE: ENGLISH GRAPHIC: PHOTO, BARRIE MAGUIRE ILLUSTRATION Copyright 2001 Globe Newspaper Company |